Can you be an elf and marry Alistair in Dragon Age Origins
Can you be an elf and marry Alistair in Dragon Age Origins
No, the option to marry Alistair or Anora are only open to Human Noble characters. If you 'harden' Alistair during his personal quest, then a human mage, or non-human can stay on as his mistress even though he is married to Anora.