If your boyfriend acted happy to see you but when you went to his house he acted tired and wanted to play video games and told you to leave does he not want you anymore or is he just using you

He's selfish! It's OK for him to come over to your place when he feels like it, but when you go to his place you are invading his private turf. He just wants to play videos. If my boyfriend (when I was younger) asked me to leave, I would, and it would be the last he'd see me. It's rude and crude to say that to you. He apparently feels he's in control because you have allowed this behavior to go on. Nail his hide to the wall! Tell him that if can't be with you at his place too you aren't using your place as a flop house and if he doesn't want to try in the relationship he can hit the road. Mean it! You deserve better. Meanwhile, start going out with friends and having a blast. Don't sit around idly expecting him to provide your entertainment all the time. Once you become independent and go out and have fun you'll certainly pique his interest and perhaps he'll pay more attention to you then. Good luck hon Marcy
I think you should find someone else, someone who qenuinly loves you, will want you forever. So, if he is acting selfish and plays video games when your around, maybe, he is not the right one. But, if you really love him, stick to him! Dont give up. . . IF you dont him to leave you. Good Luck to you and your boyfriend! -Cement2