You met a man online nine months ago but have not met and he says he has feelings for you yet you see him still online talking with other women and on dating sites and wonder if he is playing games

I could not explain this situation well in such a short space, so will try to here: Even though we have not met, we have talked almost everyday, have shared a lot through letters and talking over the last nine months. This man is Muslim, and because of his faith I thought he means what he says...he says he cares for me, even loves me and is interested in marriage. Yet I still see him on these online dating sites, and chatting with other women who seem to be scantily dressed, exceptionally pretty, but not moral or modestly dressed, which is an important issue in Islam for a woman and man both. I am not sure what he is doing or why. When I confronted him about it, he just seems to blow it off and say..'well we are not married yet, and have not met.." So why does he say so many things to me that seem to promise a future, and says he wants to marry me, yet still he is on these clubs? Is he playing games, or just because he is not 100% sure yet, he is leaving his options open and does not want to be hurt if it does not work out for us? I have almost had enough of this, and feel he is playing games. you betcha. You can find the best guys at a church group or a group that has something in common which interests you...whether it is kite-flying, fishing, or some hobby